Mrs. Beatrix B. feels a great sense of gratitude towards the team.

La signora Beatrix B. prova un profondo senso di gratitudine nei confronti del team.

I : Quando ripensi a quel periodo, alla fine, quali sentimenti provi adesso?
E : Beh, ho sempre gente intorno e non so come ringraziare tutte queste persone. Non ho molti soldi, ma ho regalato un camion di cioccolatini. Per dire loro grazie. Anche mio marito mi ha detto che sono davvero me stessa, sempre allegra, lo so. Non si trovano persone così. Lo so. Sono davvero delle persone che danno amore ai malati e di cui abbiamo davvero bisogno.

Gratitudine

Mme. Beatrix B. éprouve un grand sentiment de gratitude à l'égard de l'équipe.

I : Quand vous repensez à cette époque finalement, quels sentiments vous restent maintenant?
E : Ah bien, j’ai tout le temps avec du monde et je sais pas comment dire remercier toutes ces personnes. J’ai pas beaucoup d’argent, mais j’ai donné un camion de chocolats. Pour leur dire merci. Même mon mari aussi il a dit tu es vraiment à toi, 24 sur 24 joyeuse, je sais. Cette personne-là, tu peux pas trouver. Je sais. C’est vraiment une des personnes qui avec l’amour, avec les malades, on a vraiment besoin de ça.

Gratitude

Frau Beatrix B. ist dem Team sehr dankbar.

I : Wenn du an diese Zeit zurückdenkst, welche Gefühle hast du jetzt noch?
E : Na ja, ich war ständig mit Leuten zusammen und ich weiß nicht, wie ich mich bei all diesen Leuten bedanken soll. Ich habe nicht viel Geld, aber ich habe eine Wagenladung Pralinen gespendet. Um ihnen Danke zu sagen. Sogar mein Mann hat gesagt, du gehörst wirklich dir, 24 Stunden am Tag fröhlich, ich weiß. So einen Menschen kannst du nicht finden. Ich weiß es. Das ist wirklich eine der Personen, die mit der Liebe, mit den Kranken, das braucht man wirklich.

Dankbarkeit

Corine

I : When you think back to that time, what feelings do you have now?
E : Well, I have all the time in the world and I don't know how to say thank you to all these people. I don't have much money, but I gave a truckload of chocolates. To say thank you. Even my husband said you are really yours, cheerful 24 hours a day, I know. You can't find that person. I know. She is really one of those people who, with love, with the sick, we really need that.

Most patients praise the clinical team. It was a difficult time and they are grateful to have survived.

Gratitude and recognition for the clinical team’s help and support

Today's medical and technological advances allow patients to survive serious and life-threatening illnesses. Experiencing such a serious illness that requires intensive care treatment can have a profound impact on one's life.

In this section, you can learn how other people experienced their time in an intensive care unit. In short video or text excerpts, patients and their families share their experiences with a serious, often life-threatening illness and treatment in an intensive care unit. You can also learn about the changes those affected deal with after their time in the intensive care unit.

Grazie alle possibilità mediche e tecniche offerte dalla terapia intensiva, oggi un paziente può sopravvivere a malattie gravi che in passato erano mortali. L’esperienza di queste gravi condizioni di salute e l’esperienza della terapia intensiva possono cambiare la vita in modo radicale, sia ai pazienti che ai loro cari.

In questa sezione potete capire come altri pazienti hanno vissuto il loro periodo in un reparto di terapia intensiva. In brevi video o estratti di testo, i pazienti raccontano la loro permanenza in questo reparto, il modo in cui hanno gestito questo periodo della loro vita, e come questa esperienza li ha cambiati.

Esperienze in terapia intensiva

Les possibilités médicales et techniques permettent de plus en plus souvent aux patients de survivre à des maladies graves et autrefois mortelles. L’expérience par les patients de ces maladies graves et de leur prise en charge médicale en soins intensifs peuvent changer la vie d’une manière très mémorable.

Dans cette section, vous découvrirez comment d’autres personnes ont vécu leur séjour dans une unité de soins intensifs. Dans de courts extraits vidéo ou textuels, les patients rendent compte de leur séjour à l’unité de soins intensifs. Ils témoignent également des changements qui peuvent se produire dans la vie d’une personne après les soins intensifs.

Expérience en médecine de soins intensifs

Die heutigen medizinischen und technischen Möglichkeiten lassen Patient*innen schwere und lebensbedrohliche Erkrankungen überstehen. Die Erfahrung einer so schweren Erkrankung, die eine intensivmedizinischen Behandlung benötigt, kann das Leben sehr einprägsam verändern.

Wie andere Menschen die Zeit auf einer Intensivstation erlebt haben, können Sie in dieser Sektion erfahren. In kurzen Video- oder Textausschnitten berichten Patient*innen und Angehörige,  über die Erfahrungen einer schweren oft lebensbedrohlichen Erkrankung und einer Behandlung auf einer Intensivstation. Ebenso können Sie erfahren, mit welchen Veränderungen die Betroffenen sich nach der Zeit auf der Intensivstation auseinandersetzen.

Erfahrungen Intensivmedizin

Experiences in Intensive Care

Susanne

Ms. Beatrice B. remembers her coma as a dream where she saw many friends and family she knew.

E: I have a lot of dreams, a lot of dreams where I see all my family, my husband's family, employees, all my friends, family friends, my girlfriend, my daughter's girlfriends, I see everything. But on the other hand my brother, my sister...I see everyone, but not my mother and my father.
I: So you were in a coma, but you still perceived the presence of people? 
E: Very, very much so. Everybody, everybody was there.

Mrs. Beatrice B remembers dreams during her coma period.

Many patients in the ICU experience the state of coma or sedation. Coma can be caused by changes in metabolism, the severe illness, or sedating and pain-relieving medications. Thus, patients often experience their time in the ICU in a fragmented way and forget much of the experience.

Coma/Sedation

Mrs. Béatrice B. was afraid of being in pain when the medical team came to mobilise her, but she understood that it was for her own good.

I : And aren't there times when you would have preferred not to be mobilised and they made you do it anyway because they said it was for your own good or something like that?
E : Yes, that's what I don't like to do, because I don't like feeling bad, because I'm afraid, it's true. And she said: ‘No, madam: you're doing this for yourself, it's for your own good, you see you've been here in intensive care for a long time’, she showed me my green card (insurance) and I look at it all the time too. ‘I'm the nurse, I've made a note of it.’ I don't know how she can.

Fearing mobilization

.Patients are aware of their inability to be and act autonomously. They suffer from the fact that the team often does not understand what they are feeling. This feeling of discomfort is accompanied by forced patience, often by fear or anxiety, and sometimes by aggression. On the other hand, they appreciate the clinical team's expertise in this area.

Understanding the feeling of helplessness

Mrs. Beatrice B. was happy to see her husband, but refused to receive visits from others.

E : Yes, the ceiling. He also showed me, I went there to look, I took the photo, I said this/that I remember. And every time I talk to my husband for a moment there because he can't always, I'm sad. But he can't go either because I have the child, I have work. And after he's there, I feel even safer. That's it.
I : Okay. So the fact that your husband came to visit you was a plus?
E : Yes.
I : But when you were awake, I'm not talking about the coma phase, when you were in intensive care.
E : Yes. 
I : And when you were awake, who came to see you? Your husband?
E : Yes.
I : But not really friends?
E : No, I don't like to have them.
I : Because it wasn't allowed?
E : No, it's rather that I don't like someone coming. During...
I : Okay. It was you who decided that only your husband could come.
E : Yes.
I : And your daughter? 
E : Yes. 
I : Also. But with the other people, it was you who could, you had the right to say: I want to or I don't want to.
E : No, I don't want to.
I : You were the one who said that?
E : Yes. Even when I'm upstairs, when someone I didn't want for a week I don't like the visits. I'm tired.

Choose visitors yourself

Family and friends are helpful during the ICU stay. But patients want to be able to choose their visitors. It is therefore important that the team informs and involves the family.

Béatrice B.

Gratitude

Video Interview

Related experiences

Other experiences by Béatrice B.

Béatrice B.